Podcast Host: Deborrah Cooer (Ms. HeartBeat)
Podcast Owner: MsHeartBeat
Website: http://www.askheartbeat.com
Location: Oakland, California
Advice columnist and author Deborrah Cooper hosts Sucka Free Dating, which delves into topics pertinent to our modern society. Booty calls, FWBs, interracial relationships, older/younger, codependency, low self esteem and lots more
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5/20/2013 | Download File (27.36 MB) - right click to download
Black men lose their minds when a sistah says "I dont need a man!" All sorts of accusations about what is wrong with her are usually what follows - from being gay to carrying emotional baggage after being damaged in past relationships. I recently came across a long blog post where a guy took the time to explain how hearing that phrase makes black men feel. Well discuss his theories and the real reasons that black women say "I dont need a man!", as well as what women mean when they say it. Join us on Sunday, May 19th starting at 6:00 p.m. PST/9:00 p.m. EST. To participate in the discussion log on, or call 347-327-9215.women that do not need a man | single black women | independent black women | things black men hate to hear | female rejection
5/12/2013 | Download File (20.46 MB) - right click to download
No is a complete sentence in my book, one that establishes boundaries and places limits. Personally, "no!" is my favorite word! However, Ive noticed over the years that many men dont want to hear "no!" from the mouths of women. Most seem to believe women have no right to deny their wishes by telling them "no!" or "not now" or "I dont think so". Men do not want to hear anything from women that denies them what they feel they are entitled to. Sadly, many women struggle with saying "no!" to males. Most of the time female hesitancy and fear of saying "no! to men is due to female socialization. Women are trained to believe that a woman must always be nice, sweet, gentle and acquiesce or submit to what a male wants or he wont "like" her. Some womens biggest fear is that they must do everything the man asks and give him whatever he wants or he will "leave" her. Lets talk about the word "no!" and why so many people of both genders struggle with it - both saying and accepting it. The call-in number ie 347-327-9215. Well get started at 6:00 p.m. PST/9:00 pm EST.no is a complete sentence | saying no with power | right to say no | men do not like to hear no | why women cannot say no to men
5/9/2013 | Download File (27.11 MB) - right click to download
SUZANNE VENKER has written extensively about politics, parenting, and the influence of feminism on American society for more than a decade. Suzanne has appeared on The View, Fox & Friends, Fox's former Dayside with Linda Vester, ABCNews.com, CNN with Carol Lin, C-Span, and Canadian and Australian news outlets—as well as hundreds of radio shows throughout the country.Shes written four books, and well have her on to discuss How to Choose a Husband (And Make Peace With Marriage) (February 2013). On the heels of the uproar created by Prof. Ralph Richard Banks Is Marriage for White People, Suzanna has very firm ideas about what women and men need to do to maintain a marriage, and believes that feminism is in many respects, hurting male/female relationships and womens chances for marriage. How to Choose a Husband (And Make Peace with Marriage), takes a hard look at the sexual revolution and encourages women to reject the cultural script they've been sold about love, sex, men and marriage In How to Choose a Husband, social critic and bestselling author Suzanne Venker says American women need a detox. If they want to be happy, or just plain satisfied, they must do a 180 when it comes to their attitude towards sex, courtship and married life. If they do, marriageable men will reappear - and women will find the love that eludes them.Join us for what is sure to be a dynamic interview. The call in number is 347-327-9215.Suzanna Venker | How to Choose a Husband | single women and marriage | is marriage for white people | feminism and marriage
5/6/2013 | Download File (20.47 MB) - right click to download
Thousands of American men can be found online railing against feminism and the modern American woman. Their chief complaints: (1) Western women have no concept of how to treat a man; (2) feminism has destroyed men and the family; and (3) Western women dont know what it takes to be a "real" wife. Their suggested solution is that men look for a wife in Asia, Russia, Africa or South America. Who are these men? Are they social misfits that cant handle a woman that demands consideration and a balance of power in the relationship? Are they broke so women consider them poor husband material? Or could it be that these are professional, wealthy, educated men that want a wife that wont challenge them in any way and just augment their existence? Most of the foreign bride websites and catalogs emphasize how these women have strong family values, and know how to make a man "feel like a king." It appears that a great many men long for that kind of acknowledgement and a return to "the old days" when men were revered and served by women. A recent Today Show poll asked about "femininity" and whether it was tied to traits like being soft, receptive to mens ideas and lead, and submissive." The majority of the Today Show audience said yes - 56%. About 25% felt the answer was somewhere in the middle, and only 19% disagreed. Does this mean Western women are not viewed as "feminine" by the majority of men? Could this be why our marriage rate is declining? Join us to discuss the pros and cons of the foreign bride market and what it means for American women. Call 347-327-9215 to share your thoughts!foreign brides green cards | Western American women | femininity and feminism | why men hate feminists | female submission and marriage
5/4/2013 | Download File (19.94 MB) - right click to download
Discussion of women and the whole motherhood thing. Why are men so threatened by the woman that chooses to remain child free and unmarried? Why is she labeled selfish and not wife material? Why is society so focused on the wombs of women and what we do with our womb? Others focus on what age a woman should stop having children, how many abortions a woman can get, whether a woman can use the morning after pill or not, whether a womans insurance (that she pays for!) should pay for her birth control when it pays for , and on making legislation to control womens access to things that provide them with the power to control what comes out of their womb and when? Its worst in the black community where African American women and girls are harassed both for having children out of wedlock AND for aborting a pregnancy if she chooses NOT to have children she cannot afford. Are Black women are damned if they do and damned if they dont? Every way women turn it seems they are being harassed by MEN about children - when to have them, when not to have them, taking them away from them, etc. Are men afraid of womens power to reproduce? Should women just stop having children altogether?pregnancy after 40 | abortion legislation | black women and abortion | unwed pregnancies | women do not want children
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