Podcast Host: Paul Cutright
Podcast Owner: pgc2
Website: http://www.relationshipsavvypodcast.
Location: Santa Fe
Paul and Layne Cutright, relationship experts, share their secrets & strategies to help you get super smart about relationships.
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3/1/2006 | Download File (7.12 MB) - right click to download
This is the first in our new series about "better than bad" relationships. For those of us who have been in bad relationships, or may even be in one now, the notion of having your ideal relationship is just too much. You might as well try to fly to the moon! So we decided to talk a bit about what is a "bad" relationship and what might come next, once you decide you no longer deserve to be in a bad relationship. Although it is critically important to leave abusive relationships, that is still no guarantee that you will not create an abusive relationship in the future. The chances are overwhelming that you will. You need to "earn" your way out of a bad relationship by "learning" your way out. That is the only way to make sure you leave bad relationships behind for good. Be sure to get a copy of our Relationship Savvy Pledge to help you leave bad relationships behind for good and start creating better than bad relationships! Check out our free e-course - Successful Relationships 101 And here are some great resources - check 'em out: You're Never Upset for the Reason You Think - Resolve Any Upset Quickly and Easily Date Savvy Singles Online Dating for People Who are Smart About Relationships To ask questions or make a comment, use the link below or Contact Paul and Layne Podcast Length - 15:37
2/27/2006 | Download File (6.80 MB) - right click to download
This, our last episode in this series about the 10 Key Abilities for Building Successful Relationships, concerns the critical skill of creating win/win solutions to disagreements. As anyone can see from just looking at what's going on around the world today, all the good intentions in the world are not enough to create win/win outcomes. This is one of those abilities that requires real skill. One of the most important things we talk about here is the recognition that if one part of a relationship loses, the whole relationship loses. When that becomes clear it is easier to hold out until you find the path to mutual satisfaction. Check out our free e-course - Successful Relationships 101 And here are some great resources - check 'em out: You're Never Upset for the Reason You Think - Resolve Any Upset Quickly and Easily Date Savvy Singles Online Dating for People Who are Smart About Relationships To ask questions or make a comment, use the link below or Contact Paul and Layne Podcast Length - 14:55
2/23/2006 | Download File (5.76 MB) - right click to download
Today's show is about the one of the most important - and challenging - abilities for creating a happy life, the ninth of the 10 Key Abilities for Building Successful Relationships. Most of us were raised on the "reward and punishment system" from the time we were very little. The problem with that is that it causes us to expect punishment and disapproval as adults, and to deliver punishment and disapproval as a misguided way of getting people to do what we want. As you'll see in this conversation, there is a much better way to go -- but it requires paying attention to our automatic tendencies and making different choices. Hey, our podcast was written up in the LA Times this month! Check it out here. Check out our free e-course - Successful Relationships 101 And here are some great resources - check 'em out: Relationship Savvy - Succeeding in Love Program Date Savvy Singles Online Dating for People Who are Smart About Relationships To ask questions or make a comment, use the link below or Contact Paul and Layne Podcast Length - 12:38
2/21/2006 | Download File (6.62 MB) - right click to download
Today's show is about the ultimate self-esteem, the eighth of the 10 Key Abilities for Building Successful Relationships. First of all, it's important to understand that the kind of self-esteem we are talking about here is more about an attitude than a place at which you finally arrive. It is self-esteem based on deep self-knowledge, recognizing your inherent imperfections and loving yourself anyway. It is not about being perfect or even trying to be perfect. On the contrary, it is about embracing your shadow and loving yourself anyway. Check out our free e-course - Successful Relationships 101 And here is something to check out that we talk about and recommend in this podcast: Emotional Freedom Training - Heal Emotional and Relationship Pain Relationship Savvy - Succeeding in Love Program Date Savvy Singles Online Dating for People Who are Smart About Relationships To ask questions or make a comment, use the link below or Contact Paul and Layne Podcast Length - 14:31
2/9/2006 | Download File (5.42 MB) - right click to download
Today's show is all about the ability to trust and inspire trust from others, the seventh of the 10 Key Abilities for Building Successful Relationships. In many ways, this ability is so important it could be number one. In today's conversation we talk about the Five Stages of Relationship and where 99.99% of all relationships breakdown. One of the most powerful questions you can ask is, "What is my criteria for trust in a relationship?" Listen as we explore the all important topic of trust in relationships. Check out our free e-course - Successful Relationships 101 And here are some other useful resources you might like: The Five Stages of Relationship Self-Assessment Date Savvy Singles Online Dating for People Who are Smart About Relationships Got a question or a comment? Let us know by leaving a comment here (lower right) or send us an e-mail. Also, if there is anything you would like us to talk about, let us know that, too. Contact Paul and Layne Podcast Length - 11:53
